Ya, it happens to us at times. You are in a restaurant and you see this gorgeous guy glancing through your feelings and you feel like ‘oh… what an handsome’. The next thing is you find yourself wanting to be around this guy but the problem is, you find it hard taking action.
If the above expression has ever happened to you or you simply want to learn powerful tips to flirt with a guy you’ve never met before, read my tips below:
1. Make a Perfect First Impression
“Do not judge a book by its cover”. Yeahhh, well guys do. It is important to make a perfect first impression because it determines the way a guy receives the message you are trying to send to him. Note that, it takes people just 3 seconds to take a look at you and judge you, so my dears, this simply means you have only three seconds to make your impression. You do not want a bad name, so please avoid a bad impression. Some people always feel they could change the way people get to see them once they get the chance to talk to them, and I ask ‘why talk when you can act?’.
2. Who Am I? Who Do I Want to Be?
A lot of us are completely different from who we want to be, at least that is what we think, some of us will if given the chance change who we are. See that is not necessary, once upon a time I felt inferior but I finally came up with ways to build confidence in myself and accept who I really am. Anyways that is a topic for another day.
For a guy to accept you, you must accept yourself first. To get a man to take note of you, remember that all you have is three seconds, you need to show to him who you are in just three seconds. All it entails is the way you walk, talk, smile, laugh and look. Believe it or not, guys are even more attracted to smile, talk walk and outlook than beauty. Be cautious of your behavior – it matters.
3. Flip Your Hair and Laugh
To get a guy starring at you, laugh out to a ‘boring joke’ and if you are alone, fake a phone call and that will always draw attention to you. Once you realize he is looking at you, flip your hair ones to buy you more time. Men may not admit it but they are attracted to good looking hair. Once you are able to buy yourself some time, move over to step four.
4. Five Seconds Glance
Once you are sure you have his eyes on you, stare back at him, give him a deep, emotional stare. Stare deep into his eyes, and when you are sure you have his attention, when you are sure he is looking right back at you, give him a smile and turn you face. When giving him a smile make sure it is your best smile ever. Guys are so into girls with beautiful smiles. I don’t know how it works but they tend to see a good smile as being jovial and friendly. A good smile should drag your guy to you. Now you have him right where you want him, pay attention to what he has to say and show so much interest in what he is saying. Ask questions, that will make you seem interested.
It is awesome flirting with guys not because you want to date them but because it’s fun to know that it’s fun to be girl. Please post your comments and contributions. Thank you amigos.